Winter wedding ideas for short days and cold evenings
Felice Caricati · · 2 minute read
In short
In winter the day is short and the party moves indoors early, so plan it around the light. Hold the ceremony in the early afternoon and take the photos before sunset; candles and a long dinner come after. Guests need two extra pieces of information, namely how to dress for the cold and how to get there if the road climbs into the mountains.
Plan the day around the light
In December the sun sets before five across most of Italy. If you want photos outside, set the ceremony for around two and give the photographer the hour that follows, when the sun is low and the light is soft.
After sunset dinner moves indoors, and it is the most intimate part of the day. A dinner that starts at seven, with the windows already dark, has a closeness that is hard to find in summer.
Candles, a fireplace and something warm
It takes very little to make the party feel warm. Plenty of low candles on the tables do half the work, and if the venue has a fireplace, keep it lit. Before buying candles, ask whether open flames are allowed, because many venues want candles in glass or LED ones.
- Mulled wine or hot chocolate as guests come out of the ceremony
- Blankets or wraps on the chairs, if part of the day is outdoors
- A cloakroom with someone looking after it, for the coats
Where to get married in winter
Villas with a fireplace and mountain chalets are the obvious choices. A city in December works well too, with the lights up and, mostly in the north, the Christmas markets on; in those weeks, though, hotels and venues cost more. Outside the holidays many venues have more free dates, so ask whether their terms differ from summer.
What to tell guests about dressing
It is the question you will hear most. Answer it on the website in one clear line, saying whether the church is cold, whether part of the day is outside and whether shoes need to cope with snow or ice. A line like “bring a smart coat, we’ll take photos outside” saves a lot of wrong choices.
Roads and travel
If the wedding is in the Italian mountains, remember that from 15 November to 15 April many roads require winter tyres or snow chains in the car. Guests renting a car from abroad may not know this, so put it in the practical information and offer an alternative to anyone who would rather not drive, such as a shuttle or parking further down the valley.
On Sposiamoci the Winter template is designed for these weddings and goes well with the snowy peaks cover.
Frequently asked questions
- What time should a December wedding ceremony be in Italy?
- In December the sun sets before 5 pm across most of Italy. A ceremony around 2 pm leaves about an hour of daylight for outdoor photos.
- Do wedding guests need winter tyres to drive to an Italian mountain venue?
- From 15 November to 15 April many Italian roads require winter tyres or snow chains in the car. Put this on the wedding website and offer an alternative, such as a shuttle or parking in the valley.
- What should winter wedding guests be told about clothing?
- One clear line on the website is enough. Say whether the church is cold, whether part of the day is outdoors and whether shoes need to cope with snow or ice.